Below is a condensed version of what Dr. Richard Teo shared at a Christian fellowship meeting on 24 Nov 2011, about 8 months after he was diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer. He spoke about several key life lessons. He died last Thursday (Oct 18) at 40.

Dr Richard Teo

Hi, good morning to all of you. My voice is a bit hoarse from the chemotherapy, so please bear with me. My name is Richard, I’m a friend of Danny’s, who invited me here.

I’d just begin to say that I’m a typical product of today’s society. From young, I’ve always been under the influence and impression that to be happy, is to be successful. And to be successful, is to be wealthy. So I led my life according to this motto.

Coming from a poor average family, back in those days, I was highly competitive, whether in sports, studies, leadership. I wanted it all. I’ve been there, done that. But at the end of the day, it’s still about money.

So in my recent years, I was a trainee in ophthalmology, but I was getting impatient, cos I had friends of mine who were going out into private practice, making tonnes of money. And there I was, stuck in a traineeship.

So I said, ‘Enough, it’s getting too long.’ At that time, there was a surge in protégés of aesthetic medicine. I saw good money in there. So much so that I said, ‘Forget about ophthalmology, I’m gonna do aesthetic medicine.’ So that’s what I did.


The truth is, nobody makes heroes out of the average GP in the neighbourhood. They don't. They make heroes out of rich celebrities, politicians, rich and famous people. So I wanted to be one of these.

I dived straight into aesthetic medicine. People were not willing to pay when I was doing locum back in those days. Anything more than $30, they would complain that “Wah, this lo kun (doctor) jing qwee (very expensive)”.  But the same people were willing to pay $10 000 for a liposuction. So I said, ‘Well, let’s stop healing the sick, I’m gonna become a beautician; a medically-trained beautician.’

And that was what I did – liposuction, breast augmentation, eyelid surgeries, you name it, we do it. It was very good money. My clinic, when we started off, waiting time was 1 week; 1 month became 2 months became 3 months. There was so much demand that people were literally queuing up to have aesthetic work done on them. Vain women – easy life!

So the clinic grew. I was so overwhelmed, from 1 doctor, I employed 2, then 3, then 4 doctors, and carried on. Nothing is ever enough. I wanted more and more and more. So much so that we set up shop in Indonesia to lure all the Indonesian tai tais. We set up shop, set up a team of people there, to get more Indonesian patients to come in.

So, things were doing well. I’m there, my time has arrived.

Around some time in February last year, I said, ‘OK, I have so much spare cash, it’s time to get my first Ferrari. So there I was, getting ready for the deposit. OK! There comes my first Ferrari!

I was looking for land, to share with some of my friends. I have a banker friend who makes $5 million a year. So I thought, ‘Come, let’s come together. Let’s buy some land and build our houses.’

In March 2011, out of the blue – I was still running around, ‘cause I’m a gym freak and I always go to the gym training, running, swimming 6 days a week. I had some backache, and that’s all I had, but it was persistent. And so I went for an MRI to exclude prolapsed disc. And the day before I had my scan, I was still in the gym, lifting heavy weights, doing my squats.

And the next day, they found that half my spine had bone marrow replacement. I said, “Woah, sorry, what’s that?”

We had a PET scan the next day, and they diagnosed that I had terminal lung cancer, stage 4B. It had spread to the brain, half the spine, whole of my lungs were filled with tumour, liver, adrenals…

I said, “Can’t be, I was just at the gym last night, what’s going on?” One moment I was there at the peak, the next day, this news came and I was totally devastated. My whole world just turned upside down.

I couldn’t accept it. I have a hundred relatives on both sides, my mom and my dad. 100 of them. And not a single one has cancer. To me, in my mind, I have good genes, I’m not supposed to be having this! Some of my relatives are heavy chain smokers. Why am I having lung cancer? I was in denial.

One cigarette a day

Dr Teo: "We had a PET scan the next day, and they diagnosed that I had terminal lung cancer, stage 4B. It had spread to the brain, half the spine, whole of my lungs were filled with tumour, liver, adrenals… I said, 'Can’t be, I was just at the gym last night, what’s going on?'
One moment I was there at the peak, the next day, this news came and I was totally devastated." Photo: Internet

Lung cancer has the highest mortality rate. If you add up breast, colorectal (colon) cancer, and prostate cancer (the top few cancers in Singapore for men and women), if you add up the mortality rate of these 3, it still doesn’t add up to lung cancer. Simply because, you understand, you can remove the prostate, the colon, the breast, but you cannot remove your lungs.

But there’s about 10% of lung cancer patients who do pretty well for some reason because they have this specific mutation; we call it the EGFR mutation. And it happens, only 90% of the time, in Asian ladies who never smoked in their lives. Me, first of all, I’m male. Secondly, I’m a social smoker. I take one a day after dinner; weekends, when my friends offer me, I take it as well. I’m a light smoker, not a social smoker. But still, my oncologist was still not hopeful for me to have this mutation.

The chances of it happening for me was maybe 3-4%. That’s why I was being primed to go for chemo. But through all the intense prayers, friends like Danny, people that I don’t even know, it turned out that, during my waiting for chemo, the results came back that I was EGFR positive. I was like, “Woah, good news!” Cos now I don’t have to undergo chemo at that time, because there’s this oral tablet that you can use to control this disease.

Just to share with you some idea – this is a CT scan – thorax – of my lungs, before treatment.

Every single dot there is a tumour. You can see all the mets (metastasis) there. This is just one single plane. Literally I had it in both lungs, and I had literally tens of thousands of tumour. That’s why the oncologist told me, even with chemo, at most 3-4 months.

But because of this mutation, they have this oral medication. This is what happened after 2 months of treatment. As you can see over here; this is what God can do. And that’s why I’m still here having this opportunity to share with you. As you can see over here, the difference between before and after treatment.

At that point, I said, “Well, it’s to be expected, isn’t it? The medicine is good.” I’m still not buying the story. Well, the guys prayed for me and the tumour markers started to come down. 90% of the tumours were wiped out, and the tumour markers came down to more than 90% over the next few months.

But still, you know, once you have the clinical knowledge, you know the statistics. One year survival, two year survival... having all this knowledge is not a good thing. Cos you live with the knowledge that even with all this, the cancer cells are so unstable, they keep mutating. They will overcome and become resistant to the drugs, and eventually you’re gonna run out of medication.

So living with this knowledge is a huge mental struggle, a huge mental torture. Cancer is not just about a physical struggle, it’s a huge mental torture. How do you live with no hope? How do you live with not being able to plan for the next few years? The oncologist tells you to bear with it for the next 1 – 2 months. So it’s a lot of struggles as I went through: March, then April. April was my lowest point, in deep depression, struggling even as I was recovering.

Hardship can happen to rich people; it can be physical hardship, mental hardship, social, etc. And also over the last few months, I started to understand what this true joy is about. In the past, I substituted true joy with the pursuing of wealth. I thought true joy is about pursuing wealth. Why? Cos let me put it to you this way, in my death bed, I found no joy whatsoever in whatever objects I had – my Ferrari, thinking of the land I was going to buy to build my bungalow etc, having a successful business.

It brought me ZERO comfort, ZERO joy, nothing at all. Do you think I can hold onto this piece of metal and it’s going to give true joy? Nah, it’s not going to happen.

What true joy is


Chinese New Year... I would drive my Ferrari, show off to my relatives, show off to my friends, do my rounds, and then you thought that was true joy? You really think that those guys who sold you your Ferrari, they share their joy with you? And your relatives, wow, they share this joy with you? In truth, what you have done is just to elicit envy, jealousy, and even hatred. They are not sharing the joy with you, and what I have is that short-term pride that wow, I have something you don’t have! And I thought that was joy!

So what we have is basically short-term pride at the expense of somebody else. And that wasn’t true joy. And I found no joy at all on my deathbed, thinking of my Ferrari – to hold on to it, sayang it?!?

True joy I discovered comes from interaction. Over the last few months I was so down. Interaction with my loved ones, my friends, my brothers in Christ, my sisters in Christ, and only then was I able to be motivated, able to be uplifted. To share your sorrow, to share your happiness – that’s true joy.

And you know what makes you smile? True joy comes from helping others in hardship, and because I’ve gone through this, I know what hardship entails. In fact, there’re some cancer patients who tell me a lot of times, people come up to them and tell them, “Stay positive. Stay positive.” Yah, right. You come in my shoes and you try to stay positive! You don’t know what you’re talking about!

But I have the licence. So I’ve been going out to meet other fellow cancer patients, to share with them, encourage them. And I know, because I’ve been through it, and it’s easier for me to talk to them.

And most importantly, I think true joy comes from knowing God. Not knowing about God – I mean, you can read the bible and know about God – but knowing God personally; getting a relationship with God. I think that’s the most important. That’s what I’ve learnt.

So if I were to sum it up, I’d say that the earlier we sort out the priorities in our lives, the better it is. Don’t be like me – I had no other way. I had to learn it through the hard way. I had to come back to God to thank Him for this opportunity because I’ve had 3 major accidents in my past – car accidents. You know, these sports car accidents – I was always speeding but somehow I always came out alive, even with the car almost being overturned.

There is nothing wrong with being rich or wealthy. I think it’s absolutely alright, cos God has blessed. So many people are blessed with good wealth, but the trouble is I think a lot of us can’t handle it. The more we have, the more we want. I’ve gone through it -- the deeper the hole we dig, the more we get sucked into it, so much so that we worship wealth and lose focus. Instead of worshipping God, we worship wealth. It’s just a human instinct. It’s just so difficult to get out of it.

I think that’s about it. It’s good to share. Thanks.

The  full text can be found at

Click on the video below of Dr Richard Teo speaking on another ocassion to dental undergraduates. He spoke on the same theme (but without religious overtones) and added, among others, his views on what it means to be a good doctor.

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#29 brikos 2013-04-27 10:15
#28 Delia 2012-12-09 09:30
RIP Dr. R. Teo.

may let your testimony reach all around the world!!! I know you are in better place now! Having personal relationship with God is the true happiness in this cruel world.
#27 Alfredo A Liongoren 2012-11-05 06:22
The one PATH that matters most in this life.
#26 Alfredo A. Liongoren 2012-11-05 06:18
It is customary that the popular vote of youth today would be SUCCESS if given a choice between success and wisdom. Because of the glitter and its promised allurement. There is a customary mockery of wisdom among the youth and those few who choose wisdom are considered weird by their peers. There is something great to celebrate in Richard's sad story. Illness deflected him from a self defeating course. He will be remembered by both young and old for choosing the straight and narrow path.
#25 Carmelita A Strong 2012-11-05 00:30's in the bible Love God with all our hearts,with all our soul,and with all ou strength and love our neighbor us ourselves.

It's should be our intention for whatever we do each day.

Thank you,and bless your soul for gaining your relationship to God and realizing,your weaknesses.All of us is Love by God,and given a chance to be remorseful and be save is a Grace.
#24 Maria Corazon Quintana 2012-11-04 00:06
Truly God is good for him to realize that wealth is not the joy of our is a blessing that we should know how to handle......won derful testimony....
+1 #23 Judi Goh 2012-11-03 20:42
It is always good to give more than we take. Lead a simple life instead of being materialistic. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, mind & soul.
#22 Chris Ong 2012-11-02 05:14
"For  what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?" Matthew 16:26
Glory be to God who used Richard's testimony to save many who needed it.
Richard is now safely in the arms of Jesus.
-1 #21 Iloduba Arinze 2012-11-02 02:00
This is an inspiring piece..the irony of life is that times abound when it demands for exit at the peek of ones fantasy..Lord please make this to be ever fresh in my heart so that I will be working in the reality of your word..dn't allow me Oh lord to be too far that it will be difficult for you to rescue me in the evil for Richard we will meet again in that glorious morning...sleep on friend..
#20 Edna 2012-11-01 16:56
Thank you very much Dr. Richard for sharing this testimony that enlightened the peoples eyes and heart not to praise material thing.There is nothing wrong to dream of having and achieving wealth as long you will share this blessings to others.God is so so good,once he bless people, he will more bless those people who knows how to share those blessings.
#19 Josephine 2012-10-30 11:47
It was joyful Dr Richard understood finally. He had the assurance from God. He was never alone. God was always watching him and had never forgotten about him. And now he was called home. His living on earth was not a waste. After a such a short of period of time he finally he woke up. Dr Richard had experienced hearing GOD. It was wonderful and good - God was there to help and comfort him. Dr Richard testified to tell others not to follow his footsteps. He advised - that we must put God in our hearts. Do not worship wealth but worship God. Praise the LORD.
#18 peony & James 2012-10-30 08:23
So touching after reading Dr.Richard Teo's testimony and watching the Youtube video speaking.Thanks for sharing your personal story to all of us in the difficult times. May the angels watching in heaven as you rest peacefully in His arms. May his works be done on earth as it is in the Heaven.
#17 Princess Cathie 2012-10-28 19:19
Many use their health to build their wealth.

Later, they use their wealth to build back their health!

Why not use our health in tandem with our wealth to bless others as we have been so richly blessed!!!
#16 Mrs Yong 2012-10-28 14:26
I thank Dr Richard Teo for his testimony. He showed us that life is short and frail, be contented with life, always be grateful to God. God loves Dr Teo very much that he took his soul to heaven before he sufferred more pain. Consolation to his wife and family, he is now in a better place.
#15 andrew 2012-10-28 04:22
Thank Dr.Teo for sharing some of your insights about lung cancer: “And it happens, only 90% of the time, in Asian ladies who never smoked in their life.” I was puzzled too that my late mother -never smoke in her life -would be inflicted with lung cancer. Prof.John Wong , Director of National University Cancer Institute, Singapore : “It has been suggested that the biology of common cancers, such as breast and lung, may be different between Asians and Caucasians .There is a strong possibility that pharmacogenetic s and thus -kinetics and -dynamics may be different between Asians and Caucasians, but this has not been studied in a systematic way.”:.There is a link between lung cancer and amongst those Caucasian ladies who smoke .So the advice for Oriental ladies : if you smoke you are adding fire .“The courage of life is often less dramatic spectacle than the courage of final moment”.
His last words of compassion and wisdom have undoubtedly inspired and touched many lives. Dr. Richard Teo: Have a good journey. Rest in Peace.
#14 Samantha 2012-10-28 04:02
“I was worth over $1,000,000 when I was 23, and over $10,000,000 when I was 24, and over $100,000,000 when I was 25, and it wasn’t that important because I never did it for the money.”

“We don’t get a chance to do that many things, and every one should be really excellent. Because this is our life. Life is brief, and then you die, you know? And we’ve all chosen to do this with our lives. So it better be damn good. It better be worth it.”

#13 Peter Cheong 2012-10-27 21:55
Wealth is equal upon death, but not our works in God's eyes. With or without terminal illness, we will still have to die one day. So when it comes to doing works that delight our Lord Jesus, why wait? Heaven is open to those who truly believe in him. But true & eternal joy can only be experienced when we execute his will. RIP DR.
#12 shArk 2012-10-27 19:28
is the doctor in heaven now?
#11 dr vythilingam 2012-10-27 17:39
Our god sent down his one and only begotten son down to earth,that those who believed in him shall not perish but have an eternal life always. john 3:16 RIP sir u shall be in his path for u believed in him.
#10 Farid 2012-10-27 16:03
i happen to know dr richard teo personally since our scout days in sec sh. yes, he personified someone who was a remarkable all-rounder, good in sports, studies, have great leadership n matured beyond his years. we all looked up to him n deeply respected him. the last time we spoke was a few years ago on the phone about his remote control kites. you will be missed richard!
#9 Mary Ann 2012-10-27 01:57
"What does it profit a man if he gains the whole world yet losses his own soul" Dr.Teo had learned this fortunately, before his death. Rest in God's loving arms Dr.
#8 Goodboy 2012-10-26 16:17
We always regret when we know we have 3 months left to live.

My philosophy is live every day like it is my last. Make the most of every day. Never let a single day go to waste.

That's why I quit my dead end, high paying, long hours job and started my own company. I earned less at the beginning but it was a lot more fulfilling and more satisfying. Every day was a new exciting day, new things to achieve.
#7 K 2012-10-26 13:35
Thx Doc, RIP. At least, u hav a Ferrari.
#6 Mark 2012-10-26 11:56
Life is about giving. Enjoying the wealth alone has no meaning.
#5 andrew chew 2012-10-26 04:15
To quote BBC journalist Mark Tulley:

".....Those of us who have prospered from the new wealth are still enslaved...we taught to believe that we can never be free, never have enough, because if we ever become content with what we have, who will buy the ever-increasing goods and services we have to create to ensure the continuation of economic growth?

.......Materialism has failed. Although there is more of everything, no one is satisfied. The pace of change get faster and faster ...we know the price of everything but value of nothing! (Mark Tulley's "An investigation into the Lives of Jesus" 1996 Penguin, London ,pg 200-201).
#4 Ox 2012-10-25 15:50
thank god, i never lusted for a Ferrari!
#3 CC Low 2012-10-25 09:15
Life is brief and short. We will know it as we grow older as each year seems to pass by with greater speed than the last. In the end we have to ask ourselves the basic question : what is life all about? I believe everyone has been given a "mission" in life, and happy are those who have found and accomplished their mission before his or her passing.

In this "capitalist" world we tend to forget that money is only a necessary means to sustain ourselves. We are so engrossed in making money in our everyday life that it has become an end unto itself and we quickly forget why we need the money for in the first place every though we have enough to live by (for those who have already achieved financial "sucess").

Rich or poor, death levels everything. As James Shirley correctly pointed out 3 centuries ago, in the end "Only the actions of the just smell sweet and blossom in their dust". Perhaps Dr Richard Teo have finally discovered and fulfilled the mission given to him by God with his timely testament.
#2 Jonathan Tan 2012-10-25 04:01
That is why in pursuit of wealth, don't forget your health. Money gone can earn back. Health gone then got nothing left
#1 Lim Song 2012-10-25 02:42
So sad..makes me reflects how life can be so frail and a family friend, stage 4 too. Like what the author mentioned, .we are in no position to understand what they are going through...

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